In a marriage, it’s common to play little games with each other, like flirting or sharing funny jokes, which can be a fun way to connect. However, some games can cross the line and become really disrespectful. A 35-year-old woman wrote to us, deeply distressed. She opened up about her painful struggle to come to terms with the fact that her husband had turned out to be unkind. Ella’s life seemed like a fairytale, full of love, until one day.Ella and her husband, Jack, had been blissfully married for over a decade. In all that time, she had never seen a hint of disrespect from him. Their marriage was a passionate,