I Skipped Our Wedding Anniversary for My Sister’s Childbirth — My Wife Made Me a Nasty Surprise

Tom, 38, has always prided himself on being a reliable husband and a devoted family man. He and his wife, Emily, have been married for ten years, and he’s always made a point to prioritize their relationship. But recently, a decision he made during a critical moment has led to tension in their marriage, and he’s now questioning whether he did the right thing. Tom sent a message to us.I’m writing to you because I’ve found myself in a situation that I never expected, and I’m struggling with the fallout. My wife, Emily, and I have been married for a decade, and we’ve always celebrated our anniversaries with a special trip or a romantic dinner. But this year, something came up that threw all of our plans into chaos, and I’m not sure how to move forward.